Observations... again... yah... I think the more proactive I try to become, the more I end up observing things...
1. Its NEVER "what" you say, its always "how" you put it. And in any form of communication.
2. Never mind what people say, think, or gossip, being yourself gives you the most sound sleep.
3. Rumors turn out to be true if your surroundings flourish on them
4. Everyone has his or her own agenda; being altruistic is also an agenda
5. If you say the truth slowly, its overheard; and if you lie assertively, its executed!
What I think to be ultimate truth is that - Genes behave just the way humans do and if you are not the one living by #5 above, your gene will be extinct!!